Right Person Quotes (13 quotes)
7 Signs he’s really, truly the one
This is the step that often gets missed or overlooked. The problem was simple: I was choosing the wrong men. This is where the problems develop. This is where all the questions and tears and doubt and uncertainties and fears start to consume you. This is just a glimpse into the confusion that ensues when you choose the wrong guy. The start of a relationship can oftentimes color our lenses and sometimes lead us down a bad path and into a toxic relationship. You meet someone, something clicks, and suddenly it feels like a force outside of you has taken over.
We all want to find love but sometimes we get lost. We find ourselves in relationships that are a wrong fit. How do we really know if he is the right guy for us? Should you stay or should you go? I found myself dating the same type of person three times in a row over two years who was not good for me. Everyone says relationships take work but sometimes they can be too much work.
You want humor in a relationship. You want someone who makes you laugh, and also someone who laughs with you, and not at you. It was important to me that he liked my sense of humor; since he made me laugh, I wanted to do the same. There is nothing worse than being with someone who is negative all the time about everything. This is the wrong person to be with. This is a person who is so petty that being with them turns into a chore. You have actual chores.
The concept of knowing if he is the right one can sound a little cheesy. In some scientific ways, soulmates do exist — but not quite in the way you might think! This is according to licensed psychologist Shauna H Springer, who researches lifestyle and relationships. She says that people can become a soulmate to each other over time in a good relationship. What does this mean? Basically, you might not start out soulmates.
He's receptive to feedback. There's not much you'd change about him, but when you tell him something he did bothered you, he listens and makes an effort to be better. And you do the same for him. You feel no shame talking about how happy you are around friends. This isn't a relationship you're constantly troubleshooting with the group text or over brunch.